In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Jesus says in John chapter sixteen, our Gospel lesson for today, “Whatever you ask the Father in my Name, He will give it to you.” This, of course, is a wonderful promise from God’s Word about the gift of prayer. Jesus not only invites us to pray. But He also encourages us to believe that God will actually hear our prayers and answer them. And yet, if these wonderful words from Jesus about prayer are not understood correctly, they can have a negative effect not only on our prayer life, but even on our life of faith in general. In fact, if we misunderstand what our Lord means in this verse, as many people often do, it could lead us completely away from God’s actual will for our lives.
And so, what a perfect text for us to talk about on the day that we recognize our high school graduates here at St John. Certainly, as was the case for many of us in the past, when you graduate from High School you are thinking about your future plans. You are thinking about what you’re going to do with your life, and hopefully, if you’re a Christian, you are trying to discern what God wants from your life. You are prayfully considering the different paths and options that God has laid before you, evaluating those things in light of His Word, and you are diligently seeking His approval over which one to take. And in the midst of all that, Jesus says, “Whatever you ask the Father in My Name, He will give it to you.”
So, in this morning’s sermon, as we recognize our gradates and pray for God’s continued blessing on their future, let us think a little bit more about what these words from Jesus mean and what they don’t mean.
We’ll start with what they don’t mean first. Obviously, when Jesus tells us in our reading from John chapter sixteen that God the Father will give us whatever we ask for in His Name, He doesn’t mean that if we simply conclude every one of our prayers with the words, “In Jesus’ Name,” then whatever we said will automatically come true. Praying in Jesus’ Name is not a magic formula for getting whatever we want from God. That’s not what God’s Word teaches us about the gift of prayer.
According to the Bible, some prayer is good prayer and some prayer is bad prayer, and God will not necessarily answer our prayers just because we end them with certain words. Listen to what James says about prayer in the fourth chapter of his Epistle. He writes, “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.” Apparently, some of the people that James was writing to thought that they could use prayer to get whatever they wanted from God. They thought of prayer as an instrument to gratify their own sinful desires. But that, of course, is not the purpose of prayer. And praying in that kind way will not bring about the same result that Jesus is talking about in our reading.
Or think also about what our Lord says concerning prayer in Matthew chapter six, which is the place in the Bible where Jesus gives us the Lord’s Prayer. There Jesus says, “And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.” When we Christians pray to God, we shouldn’t act as if we are trying to get God to do things that He otherwise doesn’t want to do. That’s what the pagans believed about prayer. They thought that if they impressed their gods enough with the way that they prayed to them, if they said enough fancy words, or kept saying the same words over and over again, then their gods would eventually break down and give them whatever they asked for. But again, that is not the right way to pray. Prayer is not about bending God’s will to our own. It is about conforming our will to His.
And lastly, think about what Jesus teaches us concerning prayer in the parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector in the Temple. You know how the parable goes. Two men went into Church one day to pray. But one man used his prayer to brag about himself, and the other man used his prayer to humble himself. One man thanked God that he wasn’t a sinner like other people were, and the other man cried out to God to forgive him for his sins. And who did Jesus say had the better prayer? Who did Jesus say went down to his house justified that day? Whose prayer did God really answer? It was the man who asked God for forgiveness, and not the man who asked God for praise.
Clearly, according to the Bible, not all prayer is the same. And just because we end a prayer with certain words, such as, “In Jesus’ Name,” that does not automatically mean that God will give us whatever we ask for. That cannot possibly be what Jesus means.
So, what does He mean then? Well, simply put, when Jesus tells us in our reading from John chapter sixteen that “Whatever you ask the Father in My Name, He will give it to you,” our Lord is talking about asking for things in faith. He is saying that when we as God’s children bring our requests to Him, trusting that for Jesus’ sake, and because of what He did for on the cross, God will hear our prayers and answer them in the exact perfect way, then we can have every confidence in the world that He will.
Like every other Christian discipline, true prayer is an act of faith. That’s what it means to pray in Jesus’ Name. It means to trust in Jesus and to receive from Him whatever it is that He gives with thanksgiving. Faith isn’t about getting what we want, it is about accepting whatever God wants. It is about trusting that whatever God gives us is always best, because He already gave us His Son, so now we can come to Him and ask for other things too knowing that He will never give us the wrong thing. As Jesus says elsewhere, “What father among you, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish give him a serpent; or if he asks for an egg will instead give him a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him!”
Now sometimes even when people recognize that praying in Jesus’ Name means praying in faith, they still get it all wrong. For example, not too long ago there was a very popular religious movement in America called the “name it and claim” movement, also known in some circles as “the power of positive thinking.” Proponents of “name it and claim it” theology taught that if you wanted something bad enough, and had enough faith that God would give it you, then you could literally get whatever you wanted. If you wanted a new car, simply “name it and claim it.” If you wanted a new house, simply “name it and claim it.” If you wanted a completely new life, where all of your wildest dreams came true, then simply “name it and claim it” and all of it would be yours. The “name it and claim it” folks maintained that if you believed in Jesus enough, there was nothing that Jesus wouldn’t give you. And if you didn’t get what you wanted from Jesus, then you must not have had enough faith in Him to begin with.
But just because we don’t always get exactly what we want as God’s children, that does not mean that we don’t have faith in Him. Did Saint Paul not have faith in Jesus, when he pleaded with the Lord three times to remove from him the thorn that was in His flesh and God told him, “No.” Did King David not have faith in Jesus, when he prayed and fasted all night that his son wouldn’t die, and God did not let the baby get better? Did Moses not have faith in Jesus when He asked God to let him cross over into the promised land and instead the Lord only let him see it from a distance? And what about the prayer that Jesus Himself prayed in the garden of Gethsemane? In the mystery of His state of humiliation, our Lord prayed multiple times that if it were possible for the cup of His suffering to pass from Him, that God would take it away. Did that mean that Jesus did not have enough faith? Of course, it didn’t. Jesus had perfect faith. He completely trusted in the will of His Father at every single turn. And yet, Jesus still had to go to the cross and suffer for our sins.
Lots of times today people act as if prayer is all about trying to figure out God’s secret purpose for their life. Many Christians almost drive themselves to despair, looking for direct answers from God over things that He has completely left up to our freedom. Where in the Bible does it tells us that we should expect direct signs from the Lord about what job we’re supposed to take, what college we’re supposed to attend, or who we’re supposed to marry? Where do the Scriptures tell us that God is going to speak to us through extra-Biblical revelations so that we can have precise directions for every little thing that we face on a daily basis? They don’t. And when Christians act like they do, and when they act like prayer is the means by which we can figure it all out, they turn prayer completely backwards and take away all of the comfort that God gives us through it. What happens when a person thinks that God will show him what to do even in instances where His Word is silent? What happens is that the person makes a decision, the decision leads to hardships, and then they doubt whether or not they made the right decision. Then their conscience becomes burdened over something that God never even commanded them to do in the first place.
The point in all of this is that God’s ultimate will for our life is not something that is hidden. It is very clear in the Bible. As Saint Paul tells us in 1 Thessalonians chapter 5, “For this is the will of God, your sanctification.” God wants us to live holy lives according to His Word, where we repent of our sins and put our faith in Jesus. He wants us to do that, so that we will go to heaven when we die. Remember what the Catechism says about God’s will? First, it reminds us that “the good and gracious will of God is done even without our prayer.” Then it tells us that “God’s will is done when He breaks and hinders every evil plan and purpose of the devil, the world, and our sinful nature, which do not want us to hallow God’s name or let His kingdom come; and when He strengthens and keeps us firm in His Word until we die.” That’s God’s will for our lives. It isn’t a secret. It isn’t a mystery. It isn’t something that we have to worry about trying to figure it. God wants us to go to heaven. God wants us to be saved.
And when we pray for things with that perspective in mind, then it becomes easier to see how God actually does give us everything that we ask for in Jesus’ Name. Think again about those examples from earlier. No, God did not take away the thorn from Saint Paul’s side, but He did give him something even better. God gave Paul the assurance of His grace. God reminded Paul how His power is made perfect in weakness so that Paul could continue to trust in the Lord and be saved. No, God did not let King David’s son get better from his sickness in this earthly life, but He did usher David’s son into everlasting life early. Remember what David said, “He cannot come to me, but I will go to him.” No, God did not let Moses go into the promised land, but He did take Moses directly to the promised land of heaven. Which is better, a piece of land in the Middle East that people are still fighting over or a place in our Father’s House where there are many rooms? And no, God did not take away the cup of His wrath from Jesus, but by letting His only begotten Son drink it, God satisfied His wrath over sins of the whole world and made it possible for everyone who believes in Jesus to be saved.
God always answers the prayers that we pray in faith. Even when we don’t know what to pray for, and even when we unknowingly pray for things that could harm us, as it says in Romans chapter eight, the Holy Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. God takes our feeble prayers and He polishes them up, and then He provides the perfect response to them. He does that not by giving us necessarily what we always expect, but by giving us exactly what we need the most in order to remain faithful to Him and go to heaven when we die.
No doubt, we have many different things on our hearts and minds this day. Our graduates in particular are probably thinking a lot about their future and what’s going to come next in their life. It’s a good time to think about prayer. We can’t do anything without God’s help. That’s what prayer is all about. When we pray to God, we are acknowledging that we need Him, and that there’s nothing that we can do apart from Him. But simply praying to God is not enough. You also need to pray in Jesus’ Name. Praying in Jesus’ Name does not mean simply ending every prayer with certain words. It means praying in faith and trusting in God’s mercy. It means relying on the Scriptures and believing that Jesus always wants what is best for you. It means having confidence that regardless of what He sends your way, God’s purpose in all things is your eternal salvation. He sent His Son to die for it. He sends His Holy Spirit through the Word and Sacraments to give it. And He gives you the gift of prayer so that you can rest within it.
So, may the Lord bless each and every one of our graduates this day that their prayers, and more importantly, their faith, would never faulter. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.